How To Success in Life.....

 I'm not able to change your life but you

certainly are and I have found that it's

ideas that literally change everything

in our life in life you should only ever

be doing one of two things and that is

figuring out what you're most passionate

about like finding your dreams in life

and then to realizing those passions

realizing those dreams and the first one

is much harder than the second one if

you know what you want to do no big deal

you just commit your entire life to

doing it and you leave it get really

close or you'll die trying so what I

would challenge this young man or you

don't want me to do is you have to look

inside of your something to see what you

really want what are you passionate

about we use these words and these

little phrases of only the strong

survive and also the crap they're all

just words I get so tired of

hearing people just talking that right

now someone may think daggers is talking

oh you don't know me so when I speak I

speak from passion I speak from

experience I speak from suffering I want

to tell this young man and woman that

the only way I believe this is just my

experience my the only way you're ever

going to get to the other side of this

journey is you have got to suffer to

grow and to grow you must suffer you can

become the kind of person that is so in

tune with the values that you have and

what you actually want that when

feelings rise up you can choose to act

however you want despite them even if

you're tired you can still go to the gym

even if you're annoyed with your spouse

and you can still speak in a manner

that's loving even you don't feel like

doing that hard Brooke you can still

push yourself to do it

your feelings aren't a choice your

behavior and your thoughts are always a

choice several people live to be a

hundred years old

they have great lives and they have

great kids the kids go to college lost

her stuff but somewhere in their life

there was a point where they had a

decision to make they can go left or

right on this path left with the easy

route right was a hard route

allow you to take the easy route and

they had a good life that way but the

better life was going to the right side

and you may have 20 years of pain and

suffering you get past it but a lot of

us die never choose starting our journey

and I would tell this young person you

got to start your journey and they suck

but it will it will come out the other

side where you're coasting

many people are suffering from battle

fatigue they've been standing a long

time trying to break the addiction

believing for the promotion praying for

that family member but hasn't happened

yet they never dreamed they'd still be

single still be dealing with the illness

still be trying to get the loan now

they're tired let me encourage you your

time is coming your due season is on the

way don't let time talk you out of it

don't let discouragement cause you to

give up don't let negative thoughts

convince you to settle where you are you

were born to succeed to win to conquer

all difficulties and have all your

faculties fully developed

the only thing in life that stands

between you and everything you've ever

wanted to do is doing it all that stud

between me and everything I've ever

wanted to do in life was doing it

you have to trust your own voice your

own ideas your honesty your

vulnerability and through this you will

find your way you do not have to be

fearless just don't let fear stop live

like this as best you can and I

guarantee you will look back on a life

well-lived you are capable of greatness

in your profession and more importantly

in your quality of self stay hungry stay

young at heart take those risks you are

going to change the world around you in

big ways and in small if we want to go

somewhere you got to do it one of the

great secrets in life to becoming

successful whether it's in a business

whether it's working with someone or for

someone or your personal life is be

prepared in life for a lot of rejection

because if we're prepared for a lot of

rejection that comes you don't get

turned off you don't get disappointed

like well I'm not gonna do this anymore

no one thinks it's a good idea we need

trust right we need to trust when we're

surrounded by people who believe what we

believe and Trust starts to emerge and

we trust them and they trust us we're

more willing to take risks we're more

willing to experiment which requires

failure we're more willing to explore

and go somewhere with that no one has

ever gone before with the confidence

that if we fail if we trip over if we

turn our backs that those within our

community those who we trust and who

trust us will look after us while we're

gone we'll pick us up when we fall over

will help us when we're hurt our very

survival depends on it

courage someone who has is is has that

has the courage no matter what to

believe in something hold Harley and

follow that with faith and encourage to

just go

I was able to do it you can too you know

but you need to stop making that choice

you need a choice right now for yourself

there are people have lost the hearth

lost their sight they're the people that

have been to the most horrific

experiences life and they found a way to

still be happy because they've made the

decision that life is too short to

suffer so many of you are waiting to be

picked by who are you making the most of

your life and the answer is yes if you

pay attention to what you do in

five-second windows and so all you need

to know to change anything is a you're

never going to feel like it you're never

gonna feel ready to start the business

you're never gonna feel ready to have

that hard conversation you're never

gonna feel like getting out of bed

you're never gonna feel like it's a good

idea to apply for that promotion

we're designed to stay comfortable and

safe so if you know that you're a never

going to feel like it and B that no

one's coming it's up to you you're not a

kid anymore

I have some bad habits all my habits are

not great so if you've got some bad

habits don't feel bad

so does your next-door neighbor so does

your mentor your coach so does your

mother and father if they're alive so

does everyone and the trick of life is

to replace a bad habit with a good habit

make up your mind you're gonna do it

every day every day every day until you

don't have to think about it and then

you'll automatically do it I guarantee

you this idea will change your life

think about it all day because that is

definitely an idea that will give you

results that will stick no matter who

you are no matter where you are in life

you could take the lid off of your job

if you're wondering if you still have

the lid on in your life here are some

clues that's gonna let you know that the

lid is still on if you're not excited

about waking up in the morning if you're

sitting around bored out of your mind if

you got time to do everything anybody

asks you to do you probably got the lid

on if when you tell your dreams to all

your friends it makes sense to them you

got your lid on man your dreams should

be should not make sense to everybody

you gotta say something that make people

go how you gonna do that that's when you

got the lid off and if I were you I'd do

that

take the lid off it's not always going

to be easy they're going to be

challenges they're still going to be

curveballs thrown at me but I can't

become introverted I have to continue to

get outside myself because when you're

uncomfortable that's the only way you're

going to grow up

so the only way I became successful was

going towards the truth as painful and

as brutal as it is it changed me it

allowed me to become in my own right Who

I am today

you faced your fears you become the

person you want to be you run from your

fears you're not living you're alive but

you're not thinking in the freedom

you're not running the day the days

running you you always be the

servant not the master guys we have the

ability to go in such a space if you're

willing to suffer and I mean suffer your

brain and your body once connected

together can do anything

we all fall down in life guys the

question is who gets back up again it's

not the potential of the individuals not

their genetics it's a perseverance but

never say die add two if you constantly

keep throwing against the wall

eventually something will stick guys

never give in to what you want

I am where I am and only I can change

you